[Poll/Debate] Gay Marriage

[Vicious88]

You guys want something to talk about, here's a topic that never gets dropped: Gay Marriage - should it be legal? The idea for this poll was given to me by a valued member of the community, so please be sure to read what follows before posting.

PLEASE NOTE: If you plan to participate in this debate, you must do so in a respectful manner towards all other parties involved. I will not stand for derogatory comments or personal harrasment resulting from anything that may be said here. If you're confused, read the forum rules, under the Knowledge Base.

Furthermore, if you're going to cast a vote, kindly make a post explaining why you voted the way you did, unless you feel it best to remain anonymous.
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[Vicious88]

You guys want something to talk about, here's a topic that never gets dropped: Gay Marriage - should it be legal? The idea for this poll was given to me by a valued member of the community, so please be sure to read what follows before posting.

PLEASE NOTE: If you plan to participate in this debate, you must do so in a respectful manner towards all other parties involved. I will not stand for derogatory comments or personal harrasment resulting from anything that may be said here. If you're confused, read the forum rules, under the Knowledge Base.

Furthermore, if you're going to cast a vote, kindly make a post explaining why you voted the way you did, unless you feel it best to remain anonymous.
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[Rita]

I believe Marriage is something sacred that is reserved for a man and a woman. That said, I don't disagree with gay people or the people they decide to love.
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[Rita]

I believe Marriage is something sacred that is reserved for a man and a woman. That said, I don't disagree with gay people or the people they decide to love.
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"I'm gonna get you!"

[Vicious88]

As a nation, I believe we no longer consider marriage sacred due to the ways it is handled now. Drive through marriages in Las Vegas, a high devorce rate, etc, really deprive marriage of it's last bits of sanctity.

I myself hold marriage sacred, but not in the religious sense. I feel it is the deepest possible bond between two people, and I believe that we don't really have to keep something we care about away from others in order to keep it sacred. Homosexuals have fought for marriage rights for years, and I believe that if given to them, they would hold marriage more sacred than most Americans, who view marriage as just something you're supposed to do.

So I would agree with you that marriage should be kept sacred, but I'm afraid I disagree on how people should approach "sacredness".
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[Vicious88]

As a nation, I believe we no longer consider marriage sacred due to the ways it is handled now. Drive through marriages in Las Vegas, a high devorce rate, etc, really deprive marriage of it's last bits of sanctity.

I myself hold marriage sacred, but not in the religious sense. I feel it is the deepest possible bond between two people, and I believe that we don't really have to keep something we care about away from others in order to keep it sacred. Homosexuals have fought for marriage rights for years, and I believe that if given to them, they would hold marriage more sacred than most Americans, who view marriage as just something you're supposed to do.

So I would agree with you that marriage should be kept sacred, but I'm afraid I disagree on how people should approach "sacredness".
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[sweetie79]

Most people look at a man and another man holding hands and make jokes. People laugh and criticize other people based on their sexual orientation. Gay marriage is often frowned upon in most places in the United States. 'It's wrong and gross', often said by most that pass by.

Though some of the 'physical' aspects of a gay relationship might be different, the important thing is that the couple is happy. Happiness is something everyone wants to achieve in life, and if a person the same gender as you allows you to feel that happiness then its good.

In most states, gay marriage is banned. This is discrimination of the rights of individuals according to the first amendment. Why aren't people who want a same sex marriage denied their right? It’s a 'free' world, yet our government sets so many limits. These limits have many negative effects on relationships. If someone’s gay partner is on their death bed, they aren't allowed to give permission to pull the plug or keep them alive. They can't share Medicare, or any other kinds of things most married couples are allowed. These kinds of things hold gay couples back on improving their futures. These things can even stop them from moving on in their lives.

I'd like to think that others would become more open to the idea of same sex marriages. I mean, they aren't going to affect the lives of ordinary citizens, only help improve the lives of gays and their families. Making a change for one person can make a change for many people. Improvement is what every person strives for, and one little improvement can lead to more. So my advice to you is to love who you are. Gay, straight, or bi, you are who you are and that’s what makes you, you. Never fear what others thinks, because the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind. True friends stick with you no matter what.
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Never fear what others think, because the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind. True friends stick with you no matter what.

[sweetie79]

Most people look at a man and another man holding hands and make jokes. People laugh and criticize other people based on their sexual orientation. Gay marriage is often frowned upon in most places in the United States. 'It's wrong and gross', often said by most that pass by.

Though some of the 'physical' aspects of a gay relationship might be different, the important thing is that the couple is happy. Happiness is something everyone wants to achieve in life, and if a person the same gender as you allows you to feel that happiness then its good.

In most states, gay marriage is banned. This is discrimination of the rights of individuals according to the first amendment. Why aren't people who want a same sex marriage denied their right? It’s a 'free' world, yet our government sets so many limits. These limits have many negative effects on relationships. If someone’s gay partner is on their death bed, they aren't allowed to give permission to pull the plug or keep them alive. They can't share Medicare, or any other kinds of things most married couples are allowed. These kinds of things hold gay couples back on improving their futures. These things can even stop them from moving on in their lives.

I'd like to think that others would become more open to the idea of same sex marriages. I mean, they aren't going to affect the lives of ordinary citizens, only help improve the lives of gays and their families. Making a change for one person can make a change for many people. Improvement is what every person strives for, and one little improvement can lead to more. So my advice to you is to love who you are. Gay, straight, or bi, you are who you are and that’s what makes you, you. Never fear what others thinks, because the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind. True friends stick with you no matter what.
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Never fear what others think, because the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind. True friends stick with you no matter what.

[Smashboy]

I say let gays be as miserable as the rest of us.

Uh, don't tell my wife I said that.

[Vicious88]

She's a member here, isn't she? She'll probably find out, lol.
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[Vicious88]

She's a member here, isn't she? She'll probably find out, lol.
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[Smashboy]

[thug angel]

i thank they should b/c they r human just like the rest of us. if they want to b married and spend the rest of their life wit a man or a woman than they should. its them that has to b wit that person not u and i. if they cant get married than y should u and i or the next one get married. i mean i may b bi but i am gettin marreid. and is they love that person than y not.
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OH WELL

[Smashboy]

A subject nobody likes to talk about: (NOT to be confused with polygamy) -- polyfidelitous marriage.

The distinction? Polygamy is one man taking many wives, whereas polyfidelity is about a group of 3 or more becoming full and equal partners. If we can be accepting of gay/lesbian marriage, why is it so far-fetched to allow that?

Many bisexuals embrace polyamory/polyfidelity, I see no reason why gays and straights should have more rights than bisexuals.

[RobC1907]

I'm not going to make a long post here because my mind isn't intelligent enough to think of something worth putting down.

So, I'll just settle for a simple "yes" in the poll.

[RobC1907]

I'm not going to make a long post here because my mind isn't intelligent enough to think of something worth putting down.

So, I'll just settle for a simple "yes" in the poll.